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How To Make Anyone Like You – Personal Magnetism

If you want someone to like you the best best way to do this is to talk about them and listen to what they have to say. Don’t try to impress them with stories of your achievements. Ask about them, listen and be genuinely interested in what they have to say.

Everybody likes to talk about themselves so let them. They appreciate you a whole lot more by doing this. It’ll make them feel special, like you’re really interested in them and what they have to say. Think for a minute what you feel like when you’re telling other people about your achievements and remembering all of those feelings of pride and exhilaration that you experienced during the event. You feel good don’t you. Like this person wants to get to know you and they don’t have some ulterior motive like getting to know you just so you’ll introduce them to a friend of yours.

How To Make Anyone Like You   Personal Magnetism

The added benefit with this is if the feelings that they experience when talking to you about all those amazing moments in their life are particularly strong, those feelings can be transferred onto you. It’s called an anchor.

Is there a piece of music, any piece that bring back good memories or just feelings of love or excitement and you can’t even remember why. The music itself didn’t create those feelings because to someone else the same song could bring back feelings of depression and sadness. It’s the repeated strong good or bad feelings experienced at the same time you hear the song. Pretty soon you only need to listen to the song to elicit the same feeling.

So it you’re talking to someone and they’re remembering all of these good feelings then pretty soon all they’ll need to do to bring back these feelings is see you. Cool or what. Of course these feelings don’t last forever and can even change to total hatred if you do something against their beliefs but it’s a good place to start when you’re getting to know someone.